Mr. Next or Mr. Right? Top 5 Signs He Could Be The One
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 25, 2011 - 7:00 AM
Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap without looking, take an honest inventory of who you’re dating. Before you upgrade Mr. Next to Mr. Right status, you’ll want to ensure you’re reading his signals correctly. See how many of the following 5 essential Mr. Right traits your Mr. Next possesses.
Quality #1: He Listens to You
The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthy of) being a candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You’ll know he’s listening when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you’ve told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend’s name, etc.), and offers emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways. If your current Mr. Next exhibits the signs of a thoughtful listener, he’s in the running to become Mr. Right.
Quality #2: You Share An Effortless Ease
We’ve all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process). When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don’t have to force anything, forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you and Mr. Next communicate and collaborate with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction with Mr. Next, you may be on to something really special.
Quality #3: You Don’t Have to Compromise Who You Are
So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right relationship, there’s no need. You don’t have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your fabulous life. With the right partner, you’re not only able to be yourself, but you’re better able to be the best version of your most authentic self, no compromises needed.
Quality #4: You Trust Him
A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over time, trust is based on the simple belief system that Mr. Next has your best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100% trust worthy, you’ll have no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he’ll most likely give you his heart and pave the way for a lasting loving relationship to unfold.
Quality #5: He Enriches Your Life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, Mr. Next enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and in general brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You’ll know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!
Does your Mr. Next possess all 5 qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success. If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of who you want to date. Remember, finding Mr. Right isn’t always easy, but by being clear, honoring yourself, and acting accordingly, you’ll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately make room for Mr. Right.
Want to know more about the subtle differences between Mr. Wrong, Mr. Next, and Mr. Right? Pick up a copy of my book If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right.
Suddenly Single: To rebound or not to rebound?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 24, 2011 - 7:00 AM
Considering a post-breakup rebound? Before you break out the new lingerie, consider the consequences.
Rebounding can be confusing, stressful, and downright sad. It can also send you running back to your ex.
Then again, it can make you feel sexy and desired, which may help you heal.
If you decide to rock your recovery with a rebound, proceed with caution, keeping your mind open to ALL possible outcomes, including the pitfalls.
For tips on how to celebrate being single and ready to mingle this holiday season and into 2011, enroll in my 30 Day Get Out There Challenge for Singles.
You can also pick up one of my 3 books, depending on where you are on the journey way from Mr. Wrong and towards Mr. Right:
It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!
If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right
How to Beat The Holiday Blues BEFORE Thanksgiving
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 23, 2011 - 7:00 AM
Last week, I gave a FREE call where I shared 5 secrets for beating the holiday blues when you’re single. The great news is, you can implement these tips immediately and rock your holiday season BEFORE Thanksgiving…
Single Strategy #1: Focus on friends and family
Instead of obsessing about what went wrong with your ex or why you didn’t meet the love of your life this year, focus your energy and attention this holiday season on your friends and family. You are loved by many people! You may just need to tweak your perspective. Take some time to reconnect with old friends, tell a family member how much you love them, and in turn heal your broken heart.
Single Strategy #2: Pamper yourself
Think of all the money you’re saving by being single this holiday season! No ungrateful ex to shop for, no annoying in-laws to visit, no ridiculous lovers’ spats after one too many cups of eggnog. This holiday season, celebrate your single status by pampering yourself. Spend a day at the spa. Splurge a little on gifts for yourself. Decorate your home to your heart’s content. Whatever floats your boat, you’re footloose and fancy free to do it!
Single Strategy #3: Reserve the right to say “None of your bees-wax”
Have you reviewed your relationship bill of rights?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 22, 2011 - 7:00 AM
I was at a barbecue recently with some dear friends I hadn’t seen in a while. My girlfriend, mother to two tween girls, asked me if I’d seen the Teen Dating Bill of Rights. She then handed me a piece of paper, explaining that her daughters had been given a copy to help educate them on how to handle relationships with boys.
As I was reading the teen dating Bill of Rights, it struck me how important this information was. And not just for preteen girls (although I love the idea that young girls are being educated in how they deserve to be treated by boys).
My clients – smart, savvy, amazing grown up women like you – could benefit from reviewing and incorporating the dating bill of rights, too.
In my coaching practice, I’m constantly reminded that it doesn’t matter how smart, beautiful, cultured, talented, and/or amazing a woman really is. She can still get stuck in the wrong relationship. She can still put up with way too much crap from some guy who doesn’t deserve her. And she can still forget her value, worth, and self respect.
To that end, I am including the Dating Bill of Rights below. I encourage you to review it, print it, and put it somewhere that you’ll see it on a daily basis – on your fridge, on your bathroom mirror, by your bed, etc. This is simple yet profound information. Use it to better your dating future.
Enjoy!
Dating Bill of Rights and Pledge
I have the right:
1. To always be treated with respect.
2. In a respectful relationship, you should be treated as an equal.
3. To be in a healthy relationship.
4. A healthy relationship is not controlling, manipulative, or jealous.
5. A healthy relationship involves honesty, trust, and communication.
6. To not be hurt physically or emotionally.
7. You should feel safe in your relationship at all times. Abuse is never deserved and is never your fault. Conflicts should be resolved in a peaceful and rational way.
8. To refuse sex or affection at anytime.
9. A healthy relationship involves making consensual sexual decisions. You have the right to not have sex. Even if you have had sex before, you have the right to refuse sex for any reason.
10. To have friends and activities apart from my boyfriend or girlfriend.
11. Spending time by yourself, with male or female friends, or with family is normal and healthy.
12. To end a relationship.
13. You should not be harassed, threatened, or made to feel guilty for ending an unhealthy or healthy relationship. You have the right to end a relationship for any reason you choose.
I pledge to:
* Always treat my boyfriend or girlfriend with respect.
* Never hurt my boyfriend or girlfriend physically, verbally, or emotionally.
* Respect my girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s decisions concerning sex and affection.
* Not be controlling or manipulative in my relationship.
* Accept responsibility for myself and my actions.
Don’t you just love it? Feel free to add, edit, and tweak your own personal bill of rights to match your wants, needs, and desires.
Need help implementing your Bill of Rights? Contact me for support. I want to help you reconnect to what’s possible.
WWGD (What would your gut do?)
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 21, 2011 - 7:00 AM
Be honest. How many times have you had a gut reaction about something (or someone) and ignored it?
How many times has your gut told you something and you chose to pretend you didn’t hear?
And what were the consequences?
Probably not the best, right?
If you really listened, what would your gut tell you?
My gut recently started talking to me. And instead of questioning it or ignoring it, I listened.
Want to know what it said?
Go to Malibu.
Huh?
Mind you, I’ve BEEN to Malibu before. It’s beautiful. But having lived in Los Angeles for the last 15 years, I can honestly say I never THINK about Malibu.
When I want to go to the beach, I go to Santa Monica. Or Venice. Or Redondo.
Yet this past Saturday, as the 5 day business conference I was attending in Santa Monica was winding down, my gut went from whispering to roaring…
GO TO MALIBU!
When the conference ended that evening, I got in my car and drove up the coast to Malibu. It was a spectacular drive.
And it wasn’t enough.
Along the drive, my gut started speaking again.
Spend the week in Malibu.
Now, I’m all for splurging on a vacay, but a week in Malibu? Well, it just isn’t practical. Especially not after missing a week of work while at the conference.
But again, my gut insisted I at least consider it. And so I pulled into the parking lot of this cute hotel on the beach, walked in, and asked 3 simple questions…
- Do you have wifi? (A girl’s gotta work!)
- What are your room rates? (I’m STILL practical!)
- When can I check in?
It was that simple.
Did it make sense? No.
Was it logical? Of course not.
Was I supposed to do it? Yes!
And here’s why. During the five days I was at the conference put on by my own business coach, I learned A LOT.
I even shifted some thinking, limiting beliefs, and blocks I’d been holding onto that no longer served me.
And I realized that my gut probably knew – better than I did – that in order to process my new awareness, it would be in my best interest to be in an environment FREE from my old beliefs, blocks, and habits (namely, my office, home, routine, etc).
Of course, I had some loose ends to tie up in my office before trekking to the beach. So I put nose to the grindstone and plowed through my To Do list yesterday and this morning.
Then at 2:30pm, I loaded the car, loaded 80s music on the CD player (the PERFECT road trip music!), and started the pilgrimage to Malibu.
Upon arriving at the beach, my gut started talking again…
I AM A GENIUS!!!
And it was right, as usual. As I type this, I not only hear the waves crashing against the shore, I see them out my private patio window. Genius, right?
And you want to know what’s on my agenda while I’m here?
NOTHING.
Well, I have to do some work. But I want to honor the REAL reason I’m here – to process my new awareness in an environment free of any old bad habits, limiting beliefs, and emotional clutter.
Never having spent much time in Malibu, I couldn’t have picked a better place.
And my gut knew that.
So what does YOUR gut know?
I’ve been talking to a lot of women lately who say they KNOW their ex isn’t good for them, but they’re still holding on for dear life.
Or they know if they could just get over their fears, they could LEAP into their dream life.
These same women also say their gut is telling them they HAVE to move on, HAVE to make change, and HAVE to stop feeling so much pain.
And yet many of these women are ignoring their gut instinct to evolve.
I’d like to invite you to STOP ignoring your gut.
I chose to listen to mine, even though it seemed impractical, silly, and un-affordable.
It’s NOT.
Just like whatever your gut is telling you is NOT IMPRACTICAL, SILLY, OR UN-AFFORDABLE.
In reality, you can’t afford NOT to listen to your gut. It’s COSTING you EVERYTHING.
Starting today, tune in. Honor what you hear, even if it scares you.
ESPECIALLY if it scares you. That’s how you know you’re up to the challenge of making change!
So while I’m here processing, listening, and honoring, I’m also putting the finishing touches on my enhanced 8 Week If He’s Not The One? Teleclass. It’s the upgraded version of my Heal Your Heart TeleClass. To create the best program possible, based on what I’m hearing from the women who’ve signed up, I want to spend some time tweaking, refining, and expanding the content.
It’s going to be more than emergency heartbreak recovery. We’re going to dive deep, identify blocks, break free, and MAKE CHANGE.
To find out more about what I’m creating and how to get a FREE guide to living and loving your life, go to ifhesnottheonewhois.com.
And drop me a line or leave a comment to let me know what your gut is telling you. I’d love to know!
My gut is now telling me to turn off the computer and step out onto my private patio to enjoy the waves crashing against the sand.
And since my gut is a genius, I better do it!
How to Meet Your Husband in 2011
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 20, 2011 - 7:00 AM
Be honest. Did your New Year’s resolutions for 2011 include some variation of “I want to meet my husband this year!”? Then keep reading. It’s time to set the scene so you can purposefully and powerfully manifest Mr. Right.
First, let’s clarify your REAL resolution. The truth is, I don’t think what you REALLY want is to be married. I believe what you ultimately want – what most single women want – is to find YOUR beautiful, blissful, unique happily ever after story. You want to fall madly in love with Mr. Right. And vice versa.
Why wouldn’t you want that?
Every person on the planet deserves to find healthy and happy love with their perfect partner. There’s just one problem. A lot of single women don’t have all the tools they need to get love right. You may not have all the tools you need to get love right.
I know I didn’t when I was single. Once upon a time, I repeatedly got love WRONG. I chose the wrong men. I didn’t know my own needs, let alone how to communicate my own needs to my partner. I let my emotional baggage rule my relationships. And as a result, my relationships suffered under the tremendous weight of my baggage.
I wasn’t the only one coming to the relationship with unhealthy habits, beliefs, and patterns. My partners weren’t exactly poster children for healthy and happy men. And why would they be? If like attracts like — and it does — I was always attracting my emotional equal. Ay-ay-ay!
You will, too. And that’s why it’s essential to get as healthy and happy with yourself and your own life before becoming somebody’s wife. Before settling down with someone, you’ll want to make peace with yourself, your issues, and any baggage you haven’t already healed. The truth is, nobody can fix you, save you, rescue you, or heal you. That is, no one but Y-O-U.
So if you’re stuck in a fantasy that Prince Charming is going to come along and save you from your so-so life, do yourself a huge favor and rescue yourself this year. How do you rescue yourself? Start by following these 4 basic steps:
Step #1: Identify What or Who is Holding You Back
Whether you think your ex was The One, if your dysfunctional family has you running away from getting close to others, or if your beliefs about love have somehow shut you down to the possibility of ever finding it again, keep reading. The first step in opening up to healthy and happy love in 2011 is to identify who and/or what is holding you back from manifesting Mr. Right.
The truth is, your past may be keeping you stuck in ALL areas of your life. To get un-stuck, now’s the time to name and claim your obstacles in order to deal and heal. This may be a step that requires professional help. Enlist the assistance of a therapist, coach, mentor, or friend to work with you through the breaking free process.
Step #2: Release Your Need to Be Right and Surrender to Being Happy
Are you so attached to your beliefs that love has to be difficult, unsatisfying, or impossible to experience that your need to be right is overpowering your desire to be happy? Here are some examples of what I mean:
Are you choosing to be right as in Yes, you ARE too old, too fat, too screwed up to ever find love…
Are you choosing to be right as in Yes, your ex was the best thing that ever happened to you and you’ll never meet anyone as amazing as he was ever again…
Are you choosing to be right as in Yes, your parents screwed you up so badly that there’s no way love can show up for you…
If so, then your need to be right about being single is far more powerful than your desire to change your single status. Starting today, what if you simply chose to be HAPPY? If all you have to do to meet your husband is CHOOSE to no longer believe that it’s hard, impossible, or out of reach for you to experience the kind of love you desire and deserve, how EASY is that? If all you have to do to meet your husband is CHOOSE to be happy as you are right now, instead of who you may one day become (that debt free, cellulite free, baggage-free ideal we long to become but may never actually attain), how FREEING is that? If all you have to do to meet your husband is surrender to the beautiful truth that love IS available for you, that it’s not too late, that you’re open to it showing up any day now, how FABULOUS is that?
Today, surrender your need to be right about why you’re still single and instead choose a happier and healthier love future, even if it hasn’t shown up yet.
Step #3: Celebrate Good Men
Now that you’ve identified who and what may have been holding you back from manifesting Mr. Right, and have surrendered to the fact that happiness is so much sexier than the need to be right, it’s time to take the next step in your journey towards meeting your husband. It’s time to start celebrating the good men already IN your life. The truth is, there are good men EVERYWHERE, both already in your life and just passing through on a daily basis. However, if you do not see them, acknowledge them, and celebrate them, you will forever sabotage your chances of meeting your husband. Start paying attention to the men who open doors for you, who help you fix your flat tire, who share their umbrella with you, who smile at you, etc. Celebrate these simple acts by good men and before you know it, you’ll start appreciating men more and more. And when the right one comes along, you’ll be ready to recognize and celebrate HIM!
Step #4: Become The Chooser
So many women spend years — decades even — letting other people choose what’s best for them. They let their parents tell them what to do. They let boyfriends and ex-husbands tell them what to do. They let their alpha female friends tell them what to do. They let their jobs and bosses tell them what to do. And they remain in the passenger seat of their lives.
So how do you become The Chooser in your life? First, you stop WAITING for opportunities to find YOU. Specifically, you stop sitting around, hoping some guy will notice you. You STOP attending singles events and lurking on online dating sites just hoping and praying someone will see you, fall madly in love with you, and rescue you from your humdrum life.
Instead, you get ballsy, put yourself out there, smile, make eye contact, and talk to men on a daily basis (at the grocery store, in the latte line, in the elevator at work, at the gym, in line for popcorn at the movies, while rollerblading on the beach, on the subway, at the bookstore, while volunteering for that cause near and dear to your heart, while enjoying live music at your favorite hot spot, at the chiropractor, at yoga class, etc.) See how many opportunities there are in every day life to make eye contact, smile, and strike up a conversation? Have fun with this!
Step 5: Understand the Difference Between Mr. Wrong, Mr. Next, and Mr. Right
As you start meeting men in 2011, pay attention to which category you put them in. Mr. Wrong is the guy you’ve dated and ultimately assessed that he does not measure up to your long term wants, needs, and desires. Mr. Next is a guy you’ve met and started to get to know. He shows a whole lot of promise, and yet you’re withholding your final decision until you find out more about him. He could be your husband, but for now he’s Mr. Next. And that’s a good thing! Mr. Right is that elusive, once or twice in a lifetime guy who comes along, meets your wants, needs, and requirements, shares similar goals and plans for the future, and is interested and available for commitment with you. AND, you are interested in him and available for commitment with him. Trust me, this guy is worth the wait. If you haven’t found him yet, you’re well on your way.
For more tips on how to meet your husband in 2011, enroll in my FREE 30 Day Get Out There Challenge for Singles.
You can also pick up my e-book How to Meet Your Husband: Unlock the 5 Essential Secrets to STOP Attracting Jerks, Get Out Of Your Dating Desert, and Manifest Mr. Right.
Top 5 Hot Singles Winter Getaways
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 19, 2011 - 7:00 AM
‘Tis the season to celebrate being single! While your married with children friends are stuck at home trying to figure out how to assemble their kids’ Christmas presents, you are footloose and fancy free to get away from it all. Whether warmer climates beckon, an adventure on the high seas sparks your interest, or you simply want to slip away for a few days, there’s definitely a destination for you. In case you’re overwhelmed by all your winter getaway choices, I did a little homework and found the top five hot singles getaways this season. And now, for your reading pleasure…
Getaway #1: Set Sail on a Singles Cruise
Once upon a time, cruises catered to couples and families. The romantic dinners, family oriented activities, endless buffets, etc. Those days are over, my friends. All you have to do is Google “singles cruises” to see just how many cruises there are celebrating the single life. Love the idea of snorkeling, scuba diving, and/or hiking in the rain forest alongside your fellow single adventurers? Looking to relax poolside with other single sun worshipers? And what about the never-ending nightlife on board a singles cruise — the dining, dancing, live music, etc.? If the idea of setting sail in the company of like-minded singles appeals to you, then climb aboard this winter for destinations both known (sunnier climates) and unknown (a possible romantic rendezvous?).
Getaway #2: Hit the Slopes, Singles-style
How to be a Holiday Flirt!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 18, 2011 - 7:00 AM
I’ve got another great tip to celebrate your single self this holiday season…
I want you to become a flirting master!
Now, you don’t have to lose 20 pounds to rock your inner flirt.
You don’t have to get plastic surgery or get a new wardrobe either.
Flirting can happen anytime, anywhere, with anyone.
When you’re at the grocery store and looking for produce, keep a look out for the cuties in your vicinity. Smile, make eye contact, and give him permission to approach.
By giving yourself permission to be open and to see who’s in your environment, you can start flirting and having fun today. This is your chance to reclaim your fabulousness, and what better time then the holiday season!
For more tips on how to celebrate being single and ready to mingle this holiday season and into 2011, enroll in my 30 Day Get Out There Challenge for Singles.
You can also pick up one of my 3 books, depending on where you are on the journey way from Mr. Wrong and towards Mr. Right:
It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!
If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right
4 Common Mistakes Single Women Make
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 17, 2011 - 7:00 AM
As the holidays approach, are you left wondering why you haven’t met Mr. Right this year? I’ve been talking to a lot of single women about how to STOP making the same mistakes over and over and instead get love right in 2011.
To help YOU rock your dating life in the near year, here are the most common mistakes I see single women making. See which ones you’re committing:
Mistake #1: They Allow Work to Consume Them
Be honest. Are you consumed by your work? When you meet someone, do you do your best to push him away? As a coach, this is a common mistake I see single women make. So many women are so committed to the idea that if a man is interested in them, there must be something wrong with him, that they dismiss potentially really great guys without giving them a chance. And then they re-immerse themselves in work mode, staying in masculine energy that makes them not only hard to approach but practically impossible to connect with.
Mistake #2: They Believe Time Has Run Out
Think time has run out on your chance to have love, marriage, and babies? You’re wrong. While it may have been true that once upon a time love, marriage, and babies had a predictable timeline, in 2010 our lives are less predictable. And that’s a good thing. As many women are delaying marriage until our 40s and 50s, the truth is we are never behind schedule. We’re right on time for our lives. And yes, I understand the biology isn’t always on our side. But if you truly want to have a family, not being able to bear your own children shouldn’t be the deal breaker. You can adopt, hire a surrogate, be a foster parent, or even a step parent to your future partner’s children.
Mistake #3: They Ignore Good Men
I see this time and time again. When a woman believes that there are no good men available, all she sees is proof that she’s right. I invite every woman who believes that all the good ones are taken to let go of her need to be right and instead step in to the desire to be happy. The truth is, there are good men everywhere. Not all of them are available. Not all of them are interested. And you’re not interested in all of them. However, by acknowledging and celebrating these good men, even if they simply open a door for you, let you ahead of them in line at the grocery store, or compliment you on your perfume, this is an opportunity to recognize a good man. When you start celebrating the good men you interact with every day, and lighten up on your need to be right about your belief that there are no good single men left, you will change who you attract. In the process, you can attract somebody pretty fabulous.
Mistake #4: They Run The Other Way
Time and time again, I see single women asking for a good guy to show up. And then when he does, they have the urge to run the other way. This is actually perfectly natural. If all a woman has ever experienced in her dating life is frustration, disappointment, and lack of emotional availability, then that’s what she’s used to. However, if she wants a different dating result, she’s got to change her behavior. As initially uncomfortable as receiving interest, adoration, and genuine connection with a good man can feel when you’ve never felt it before, now’s the time to get uncomfortable. Let yourself experience a different dating result. That’s what you’ve asked for. Celebrate what you’ve manifested, move through the discomfort, and into the pure enjoyment of getting to know someone truly amazing who’s truly interested in getting to know you.
When it comes to creating a life you love and attracting the love of your life, the key lies in getting really clear about how you may have sabotaged your success in the past. Once you acknowledge how you may have contributed to past disappointment and drama, you can change your behavior. With that simple act, you can create new beliefs and behavior and ultimately enjoy different (and better) results.
To start celebrating being single and ready to mingle this holiday season and meet Mr. Right in record time, enroll in my 30 Day Get Out There Challenge for Singles.
You can also pick up one of my 3 books, depending on where you are on the journey way from Mr. Wrong and towards Mr. Right:
It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!
If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right
When will you unleash your ROAR?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on July 16, 2011 - 7:00 AM
I’ve got a question for you. Are you playing it safe?
Are you living small, playing by the rules, and in general, tiptoeing through your life?
If so, how’s that working for you?
More importantly, how’s that NOT working for you?
How has playing by the rules kept you stuck, limited, and unsatisfied?
How have you squelched the authentic part of you that wants more, dreams bigger, and believes in possibility?
Maybe playing it safe has kept you in unsatisfying relationship after unsatisfying relationship.
Maybe living small has kept you from pursuing your dreams, taking a risk, and stepping outside your comfort zone, all necessary requirements for living your dream life.
I see it time after time. Women choosing to play it safe because they don’t know how to unleash their ROAR.
Women settling for less than they deserve in life and love because they’re too afraid to open their mouths and ROAR.
Are you one of them?
And if so, when will you unleash your ROAR?
What’s it going to take for you to step up to your Remarkable Openness to Awakening and Reinvention?
That’s really what I’m talking about. When you ROAR, you’re really…
- Awakening to what’s possible
- Opening up to making change and getting better results
- Summoning the inner strength to reinvent in the face of fear and uncertainty
If you ask me, the time is now. You’ve played it small long enough. And look what it’s gotten you…
- Mediocre relationships
- A so-so life
- Heartbreak after heartbreak
- The general feeling that you’re not living your best life
So again, I want to know…
What’s it going to take for you to unleash your ROAR?
As someone who has had her fair share of life’s ups and downs, faced reinvention time after time, and constantly challenges herself to ROAR, I want to help you.
I want to help you unleash your ROAR!
Sounds scary? It’s not. In fact, it’s freeing, fabulous, and fun! And it starts with a simple and profound baby step.
It starts with committing to your ROAR right this minute.
Again, I ask…
What’s it going to take for you to unleash your ROAR?
What’s it going to take for you to let go of the never ending cycle of:
- Mediocre relationships
- A so-so life
- Heartbreak after heartbreak
- The general feeling that you’re not living your best life
And instead embrace what’s possible including:
- Healing your heart and attracting the love of your life
- Living life on a grander scale, fully committed to your most authentic self
- Breaking free of all limiting beliefs and self sabotaging behaviors to live your dream life
This is such an exciting time for you.
I can’t wait for you to unleash your ROAR!
Post your ROAR experiences here.
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